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The Ultimate Wedding Ceremony Checklist: Don’t Forget These Key Details

  • Florence Henriot
  • Oct 29
  • 3 min read

Planning a wedding ceremony is one of the most exciting (and sometimes overwhelming!) parts of your big day. Between writing your vows, choosing the perfect song for your walk down the aisle, and making sure your guests know where to go — it’s easy for small details to slip through the cracks.


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To help you stay organised and calm, here’s the ultimate wedding ceremony checklist that covers all the essentials — from the practical to the deeply personal.


💍 1. Pre-Wedding Ceremony Checklist Essentials

Before you walk down the aisle, double-check these details:

  • Your ceremony start time and duration — confirm with your celebrant, venue, and photographer.

  • Marriage paperwork — ensure your legal documents are completed and ready for signing.

  • Seating plan and décor setup — check that chairs, signage, and flowers are placed correctly.

  • Sound and music setup — test microphones, speakers, and ceremony songs.

  • Backup weather plan (especially for outdoor weddings!)

💡 Tip: Create a simple “ceremony run sheet” for your suppliers and wedding party so everyone knows the flow of events.

💐 2. Personal Touches

These are the small details that make your ceremony uniquely yours:

  • Your vows — printed, written, or memorised.

  • Rituals or readings — such as a unity candle, handfasting, or family blessing.

  • Special acknowledgements — honour loved ones or mention guests travelling from afar.

  • Aisle décor and floral arrangements that match your theme.

  • Music — prelude, processional, signing, and recessional songs.

💗 Celebrant tip: A personal vow moment or shared reading often becomes one of the most memorable parts of your ceremony.


Nicole with a Happy Couple after their ceremony

📸 3. Ceremony Team & Timing

Make sure everyone involved in your ceremony is prepared:

  • Confirm your celebrant’s arrival time and access to the venue.

  • Ensure your photographer and videographer know the ceremony layout and lighting.

  • Brief your wedding party — where to stand, when to walk, and any cues.

  • Assign a guest usher to help with seating.

  • Allow a few extra minutes before the ceremony for any last-minute adjustments.




🕊️ 4. The Legal Bits

An often-overlooked but essential part of every wedding:

  • Complete and lodge your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) at least one month before your wedding.

  • Have your official witnesses (two people over 18) ready for the signing.

  • Make sure your celebrant has your IDs and all paperwork prepared.


💡 Find out more about this by visiting our page on How to get a legal wedding certificate in NSW.

🩷 Pro tip: Your celebrant will guide you through every step — from paperwork to the ceremony structure — so nothing gets missed.

🎉 5. After the Ceremony

Once you’ve said “I do,” there are still a few things to tick off:

  • Collect your marriage certificate copy from your celebrant.

  • Plan where you’ll go for photos immediately after the ceremony.

  • Have someone in charge of packing up décor or signage.

  • Arrange transport for the couple and bridal party.

  • Celebrate and soak it all in — this is your moment!

wedding celebration

💕 Final Thoughts

Your wedding ceremony is more than a formality — it’s the heart of your day. With a clear checklist and the right celebrant by your side, you can relax, stay present, and focus on what truly matters: celebrating your love.

If you’re looking for guidance, inspiration, or a celebrant who’ll help bring your ceremony vision to life, I’d love to chat. Let’s make your day beautifully personal and effortlessly smooth.


📩 Get in touch today to start planning your perfect ceremony!



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Based in Kingsford, in Sydney's eastern suburbs, Nicole Webster conducts civil marriage ceremonies across metropolitan Sydney including: Sydney city, the inner west, eastern suburbs, north shore, northern beaches and western suburbs.

As a Sydney local, Nicole is conveniently located for couples living in Manly, Palm Beach, Curl Curl, Dee Why, Collaroy, Narrabeen, Mona Vale, Warriewood, Newport and Avalon. I can also travel to Hornsby, Killara, Lindfield, Turramurra, Wahroonga, Pymble, Roseville, St Ives, Artarmon, Cammeray, Castle Cove, Castlecrag, Chatswood, Cremorne, Crows Nest, Willoughby, Hunters Hill, Kirribilli, Lane Cove, Lavender Bay, McMahons Point, Middle Cove, Milsons Point, Mosman, Naremburn, Neutral Bay, North Sydney, Northbridge, Northwood, Riverview, St Leonards, Greenwich, Waverton, Willoughby, Balmoral, Beauty Point, Blues Point, Clifton Gardens and The Spit.

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